As I discussed in my previous post, the path to change is seldom straight and easy. Even after a client has succeeded in sustaining their chosen health behavior over a period of months, they may still be susceptible to lapses or minor slips. During those times, it is critical for a coach to continue offering support and help the client determine what they have learned from their experience.
Maintenance occurs when a client has been regularly practicing the new behavior or action with no more than a few lapses or an occasional relapse after which they quickly and successfully return to regular practice. What started out as a goal has become a new habit. At that time, there are a few pathways for the client to consider:
- The client may be ready to explore deeper commitment in the same focus area. For example, a client who went from being inactive to walking 3 days/week may wish to increase that practice to walking 5 days/week. Or they may choose to register for an activity such as a charity 5k walk.
- The client may be ready to take on a new goal in a completely different area. Success in small goals often gives the client confidence to tackle more challenging behavior changes. For example, a client who is a casual smoker who increases their physical activity level may decide to quit smoking completely. Or a client who successfully reduces the amount of meat they consume may decide to go further and adopt a vegetarian or vegan diet.
- The client may choose to complete coaching at this point now that they are able to successfully maintain the behavior change. Of course, the door is always open for them to return to coaching in the future if and when they want to take on a new focus area. However, I believe that the coaching process can also equip the client with the skills necessary to address future changes on their own. The skills they learn through the coaching process can be transferred to any habit or behavior they wish to change.
In the end, coaching is really a journey of self-discovery and exploration that empowers you, the individual, to achieve your highest level of health and wellbeing. There is no greater gift of self-love.
I hope you have enjoyed this series about the stages of the coaching process. Stay tuned for future posts about your favorite health and wellness topics!